Hey folks, this post will describe in detail a sexy game I invented with my husband a few years ago. It is designed primarily for people interested in experimenting with light bondage and/or mild domination/submission, but it could easily be modified for those with different tastes.
The background is that, in general, I am a fairly passive person, while my husband is very strong and assertive. This general tendency translated to our sex life as well. But, several years he admitted that he had long fantasied about having me temporally take control. He said that, he wanted me to “dominate” him in the bedroom. I did not even know what that meant exactly, but he helped me figure it out. The truth is, I had also fantasized about being more sexually assertive. I liked the idea of teasing him and making him do my bidding, but I did not know where to start. Now, years later, playful domination is fairly common part of our sex life…and we both love it. This game (developed by both of us) helped me figure out exactly what to do when we play out this recurring fantasy.
The text below is adapted from I blog post I was writing up about a year ago. I never actually created the blog, but Married Heat seems like an appropriate venue for this. My husband I believe strongly in monogamy (nine years…going on strong!) and we are Christians. Admittedly, the description of this game is quite long. This is because it includes detailed ideas for all 52 cards in standard playing deck (plus a few supplemental ideas). I apologize in advance for the excessive length. With that…here we go.
Sexy Ideas: Queen and Slave
Ladies, do ever want to take charge of your sex life? Are you tired of being sexually passive? Would you secretly like to dominate the bedroom? If so, you are not alone. Studies have indicated that at least half of women have had this fantasy, but less than ten percent have ever acted on it. (Of course, many women also fantasize about losing control and/or being dominated, but that’s a subject for another day). Similarly, most men have, at least occasionally, fantasied about being dominated by a sexy, confident woman. They tend to be rather sheepish about admitting it, but trust me…most men are aroused by the idea.
Unfortunately, most online resources are hardly helpful about this subject. Instead of useful tips and fun kinky ideas, the internet is largely filled with information, pictures, and videos about serious fetishes and hard-core S&M. There is nothing wrong with that, but the fact is, most women (and most men, for that matter) are not interested in the “heavy” stuff.
So, how can you dominate your boyfriend, husband, or lover, without bringing out the whips and chains? How can take charge while keeping things light and fun? And, most importantly, how exactly do you make him a sex slave without stepping too far outside your (and his) comfort zone?
The answer, it turns out, is actually quite simple. With just a bit of foreplay, you can take total control. And this simple card game is some way to do just that. It is filled with plenty of kinky ideas to keep things spicy and to keep you confidently on top (where you belong).
So go ahead: Read the rules, tailor them to your personal tastes and preferences, and enjoy!
Object of the Game:
The object is quite simple. For a specified amount of time, your man must treat you like an absolute Queen. He must do exactly as you say, no questions asked. As he plays the role of sexy love slave; the cards in the deck will determine exactly what he must do. If he performs to your satisfaction, then he should be rewarded at the end of the game. Otherwise, too bad for him.
Seriously, it’s a simple as that! Trust me, he won’t need any more motivation. Use just a bit of innuendo to make it clear what the “reward” is, and make it clear that he won’t be getting any unless he plays the game and plays it well. And just like that, you are Queen for a night!
He will be surprised (and aroused) by your
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