Recently we stumbled upon something that we both really like and I thought it would be fun to share and see if anyone else already does something similar.
This came about after some experimentation while dealing with some dryness/irritation issues. Lubes were out as she said they make her feel sticky down below afterwards and she doesn’t like it.
It’s been a problem, though not a large one. I’d gotten some really light-weight water based lube for us, but she’s been unwilling to try it. So I got to thinking about what we could use and it hit me – pre-cum.
More correctly called Cowper’s fluid or preseminal fluid, its the clear fluid that leaks from the penis for many men as they get aroused.
I produce a decent amount, enough that it will drip down my shaft. Now usually, it ends up getting the sheets wet or on my leg because we ignored it. But while I was thinking about our problem, I realized it was slippery. I didn’t have to interrupt love-making to get it out of the nightstand. And I almost always have a ready supply, though I only get a lot if my cock is being stimulated.
So, here’s what we do now – we start out lying next to each other, me playing with her and she with me. As I get aroused, I reach down to the tip of my cock and get my finger all slick with pre-cum.
Once I’m slicked up, I slide my finger between her pussy lips and very lightly run my slippery digit over the top of her clit. Because its still early goings for her, that’s all the moisture there is, so I’ll usually have to go back to the well three or four times to make sure there’s enough lube for her to be comfortable as I play with her clit. However, once I’ve got it slicked up – oh yeah!
Every time I re-coat and touch her – the moans of delight! I use the lightest of pressure as I know she’s still warming up. And I re-dip as soon as it starts to feel tacky. This lights her fire fast.
Sometimes I’ll slip down from her clit to the opening of her vagina, coating everything in between. After awhile, I’ll rub some of my pre-cum just inside the entrance, to help get her ready. She loves it. I think part of it for her is knowing it actually comes from me. She doesn’t like to give oral – the taste and the thought of it are off-putting. But this allows her to accept something from me with no reservation in a way that we both enjoy.
The best part about this for me is feeling her hand jacking my cock off when I reach down. It is so arousing for me to have her hand bumping into mine. Something kinda naughty. I don’t know, but I love it. And she gets SO excited when I do reach down because she knows just how good my next touch is going to feel to her. She strokes me extra fast in those moments, caught up in the anticipation.
Occasionally, to my everlasting delight, I will kneel between her legs and she will place my cock tip right on her clit. Then she jacks my cock, spreading the pre-cum right onto her little nub. Oh man…the sight, the feeling of that. Watching her take my cock in her hand, looking down on her perfect, naked body, having her guide my member right to her sex? Wow. Nearly pushes me over the edge each time.
The nice thing about this for us is that it changed foreplay into a couples activity. I’ve mentioned before my wife’s longer foreplay requirements and even though we’ve tried to have her touching me while I help her, it just hadn’t been very satisfying for me. She’d get distracted or too focused on trying to make sure she was ready that I felt left out.
Now though, we’re connected during the process. We’ve united in one more aspect of our love making that I hadn’t even really realized was as big a problem for me as it had been. There had been a wall for me – an emotional one. I felt like I was giving all this time to make sure she was taken care of and by the time I got into the action, her high arousal pushed us both over the edge so fast that I didn’t feel satisfied. It’s a selfish way of thinking, I know, but that was how I felt, even though I couldn’t even put it into words.
This new approach for us has been such a blessing. We both get ample time to get hot and bothered with all that wonderful sensation during the build-up. There’s no resentment on my part and she gets to have the wonderful, pleasurable experience without having to worry about how she will feel after.
The nicest corralary to all of this is that because of the way we do it and the way we mix what we each produce, we don’t have the issues with dryness anymore. Stacey gets far wetter doing this than ANY other form of foreplay, including oral (which we both still love). Sex goes longer and has been more vigorous than ever before.
So, is it just us? Or is there anybody else out there that does something similar?
This came about after some experimentation while dealing with some dryness/irritation issues. Lubes were out as she said they make her feel sticky down below afterwards and she doesn’t like it.
It’s been a problem, though not a large one. I’d gotten some really light-weight water based lube for us, but she’s been unwilling to try it. So I got to thinking about what we could use and it hit me – pre-cum.
More correctly called Cowper’s fluid or preseminal fluid, its the clear fluid that leaks from the penis for many men as they get aroused.
I produce a decent amount, enough that it will drip down my shaft. Now usually, it ends up getting the sheets wet or on my leg because we ignored it. But while I was thinking about our problem, I realized it was slippery. I didn’t have to interrupt love-making to get it out of the nightstand. And I almost always have a ready supply, though I only get a lot if my cock is being stimulated.
So, here’s what we do now – we start out lying next to each other, me playing with her and she with me. As I get aroused, I reach down to the tip of my cock and get my finger all slick with pre-cum.
Once I’m slicked up, I slide my finger between her pussy lips and very lightly run my slippery digit over the top of her clit. Because its still early goings for her, that’s all the moisture there is, so I’ll usually have to go back to the well three or four times to make sure there’s enough lube for her to be comfortable as I play with her clit. However, once I’ve got it slicked up – oh yeah!
Every time I re-coat and touch her – the moans of delight! I use the lightest of pressure as I know she’s still warming up. And I re-dip as soon as it starts to feel tacky. This lights her fire fast.
Sometimes I’ll slip down from her clit to the opening of her vagina, coating everything in between. After awhile, I’ll rub some of my pre-cum just inside the entrance, to help get her ready. She loves it. I think part of it for her is knowing it actually comes from me. She doesn’t like to give oral – the taste and the thought of it are off-putting. But this allows her to accept something from me with no reservation in a way that we both enjoy.
The best part about this for me is feeling her hand jacking my cock off when I reach down. It is so arousing for me to have her hand bumping into mine. Something kinda naughty. I don’t know, but I love it. And she gets SO excited when I do reach down because she knows just how good my next touch is going to feel to her. She strokes me extra fast in those moments, caught up in the anticipation.
Occasionally, to my everlasting delight, I will kneel between her legs and she will place my cock tip right on her clit. Then she jacks my cock, spreading the pre-cum right onto her little nub. Oh man…the sight, the feeling of that. Watching her take my cock in her hand, looking down on her perfect, naked body, having her guide my member right to her sex? Wow. Nearly pushes me over the edge each time.
The nice thing about this for us is that it changed foreplay into a couples activity. I’ve mentioned before my wife’s longer foreplay requirements and even though we’ve tried to have her touching me while I help her, it just hadn’t been very satisfying for me. She’d get distracted or too focused on trying to make sure she was ready that I felt left out.
Now though, we’re connected during the process. We’ve united in one more aspect of our love making that I hadn’t even really realized was as big a problem for me as it had been. There had been a wall for me – an emotional one. I felt like I was giving all this time to make sure she was taken care of and by the time I got into the action, her high arousal pushed us both over the edge so fast that I didn’t feel satisfied. It’s a selfish way of thinking, I know, but that was how I felt, even though I couldn’t even put it into words.
This new approach for us has been such a blessing. We both get ample time to get hot and bothered with all that wonderful sensation during the build-up. There’s no resentment on my part and she gets to have the wonderful, pleasurable experience without having to worry about how she will feel after.
The nicest corralary to all of this is that because of the way we do it and the way we mix what we each produce, we don’t have the issues with dryness anymore. Stacey gets far wetter doing this than ANY other form of foreplay, including oral (which we both still love). Sex goes longer and has been more vigorous than ever before.
So, is it just us? Or is there anybody else out there that does something similar?
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