I have mentioned on a few occasions on MH – that I do not see myself as being as creative as many of the contributors. It is not that I’m not creative at all. Yet, this is one of the things I love so much about MH – the ideas that come from other’s stories lead to my wife and I trying some exciting new things – and embracing some of them.
I want to say something about what we all might think of as our normal, sexual patterns.
I am grateful to God for the great gifts He has brought us – in choosing to make us in such a way – that we are designed to be excited by our sexual relationship with our spouses. And I want to assure you – we are still enthusiastically excited after 28 years of marriage! It just keeps getting better. Those of you couples who are younger – I want you to be encouraged by this! Keep seeking the Lord in all things! He is faithful to keep things growing and progressing in all areas of your life and marriage. This includes keeping your sex lives fresh!
Think about it: God could have made us non-sexual. Or He could have made us to reproduce in some other way. Or, He could have made it that we reproduce as we do – but made us to see sex as a chore – like taking out the trash. It has to be done. Thankfully, He didn’t! He knew exactly what He was doing! He did it purposely! Like all good gifts, they require God’s wisdom in the using of them rightly.
But there is no denying it – God made us to enjoy our sexual intimacy with marriage partner. Those of us who have come to know the Lord Jesus Christ – and have the understanding of what He has graciously given us to enjoy – should be constantly praising Him for it. I want you to know that my wife and I regularly (not every time!) thank God for the joys we have in our sex together. We thank Him because we know He is the giver of all good gifts.
All this said, what is the normal, sexual pattern? Do you have one? My wife and I do.
I do love the infrequent treat of experiencing something that we don’t normally experience. But it is not the norm. Like car sex on a trip. I have written about this concerning a recent trip we had. But, that is not our norm. We don’t have car sex every time we go to the grocery store. It isn’t our norm to have sex in the garage. Or on a plane. Or on the kitchen table.
What is normal for my wife and I is this:
It is our regular pattern to have sex every other night (and almost always at least 3 times a week). There are exceptions. We do have back to back nights more infrequently.
Our normal pattern of what we do is: We come to bed naked. We have small, soft towels for cleanup at the ready. The door is locked so the kids can’t walk in. We have music softly playing.
My wife usually begins by laying by my side and we hold each other and have prayer.
When we are done praying, she starts in sucking on my cock – which she has been holding during our prayer. She gently takes my balls into her mouth, then goes up and down my shaft – and then plays with my head. Her tongue is amazing. She has the perfect amount of coarseness to her tongue texture – that creates a sensuous friction on my dick. I love how she plays with my head, and especially flicking the tip of her tongue on my hole at the tip of my head. Our normal pattern is for her to take me to the edge of orgasm and stop without me cumming. There are exceptions to all the steps I am about to list – because we sometimes cum in each of the steps! Yet, our normal pattern to is to cum when we fuck at the end.
We are both heated up by now – and she lays on top of me and I begin to suck her tits. She props her head and shoulders up on pillows as I go to town on her boobs. My wife loves booby play! I grab them, suck them, squeeze the tips of her nipples, flick them over and over again with my tongue (she absolutely loves this!!). I squeeze them hard at times, gentle at other times – and get fairly rough as she gets more and more aroused. My wife loves her boobs to be played with in every way. She knows her hubby is a boob guy! I pull both of them together and suck on both nipples at the same time. She moves from side to side and hits me with them – as I try to latch on to her nipples as they go by. While I suck on them, I grab her ass – as she grinds her wet pussy on me. I will reach down and get my finger wet in her pussy, and stick it in her ass. She loves the sensation of having her boobs sucked, while being fingered in her pussy and asshole at the same time. It is me who has to stop her short of orgasm – as we go on to the next normal treat.
I get out from under her and she lies on her tummy. It is time to play with her butt. I lay face down on her back – with my knees just above her shoulders. I start kissing her butt – as I knead her beautiful butt cheeks with my hands. My wife and I always come to bed CLEAN! I love the smell of her from head to toe. I love the smell of her butt. I kiss her butt cheeks and suck on them. I suck her all over – from just below her belt line down to where her butt meets her upper thigh. I then move to the skin that is on either side of her crack. At the same time, I have a hand underneath – playing with her pulsating pussy – putting pressure on her clit. I then start playing with her butt hole with my tongue. She goes crazy from this. If I don’t want her to come yet, I have to put less pressure on her butt hole – or quit playing with her pussy at the same time. She is at the edge and I get off of her and reposition myself under her.
Now, I’m still talking about our normal pattern here. Next, I eat her pussy! By now, it is so wet – I start by just taking a quick drink of the juices that are already there. I devour her pussy. I suck on it, tongue her everywhere. I put the tip of my tongue on her clit, then pull it out and go side to side. Then, come out and just lick her pussy lips ever so lightly. I love it when she starts to masturbate on my face. This is when I tell that I’m not going to do anything under her – I’ll just passively be there as my face becomes her sex toy. I love this because she so aggressively grinds on my whole face and gets me wet all over – from my forehead to my chin. She goes wild! The sound that her wet pussy makes while so close to my ears is so hot! I love it when she has an orgasm in this position. When she does, the waves that I feel on my face are so intense. She presses down so hard on me as she cums – I love the little pulsations that her whole pussy makes until she is still – and she orgasms for a while! Of course, I drink all of her juices during this whole time. I love her taste! I’ll put it this way, I could never get dehydrated while giving my wife oral sex!! Usually, about two-thirds of the time – she stops just short of orgasm – because she wants to be pounded from behind at the finish!
Our normal finishing position is doggy-style. We both love this for many reasons. By now, we are both so hot and crazed that we are like wild animals – so the doggy seems appropriate. That’s a joke. We like the angles, the fact that I can cup her boobs, the feeling of my hips going up against her butt, and the power of the pounding that we can exert in this position. My wife loves to be pounded – and I love to pound her. She also loves how my cock hits her clit in this position. We might go at this short or long. We both love to hold on as long as we can – loving the feeling of going in and out for a long time. I usually tell my wife I want her to cum first. We often come right at or near the same time – but not always. If I cum first, I might put my hand down on top of my wife’s hand as she is playing with her clit as I’m doing her from behind. I love the feeling of my wife’s pussy gripping my cock as we screw. I often praise her for her tight pussy! It easily takes all my 7-8 inches – but gives a slippery yet tight enough feel to create a friction that is out of this world!
After we both cum, it is our normal pattern to lie in each other’s arms as the juices flow out of her pussy. We tell each other “I love you” – and even talk about how amazed we are yet again by what we just experienced! We are amazed at how God has made us! We love each other. We love our marriage and family. We have a great life in Christ. He is the center of our lives! We love the opportunities we have to serve Him in this world. All of that is more than enough. Yet, this loving sex in marriage that we both just experienced is just another cherry on top of a life so blessed by God. We can’t understand how God makes our sex to be so new – again and again. Yet, He does!
I want to end by saying that normal does NOT equal boring. We love our normal sex patterns. They keep us both hot and satisfied. We don’t need to look to be satisfied by anyone else!
We don’t take God’s gifts for granted. I want to encourage all reading this to do the same. Thank God for your normal patterns of sex with your marriage covenant spouse. The special moments that come infrequently will still be there for us from time to time – and we’ll continue to look forward to them and enjoy them, too.
If you are so inclined, I would love to read responses to this – in having you tell what your normal sexual patterns are. This less creative man (me) would love to read about your normal patterns – so that they might perhaps become part of ours in the future. You can make your reply as long or short as you like. But, I’d like to learn from your normal patterns – because our normal patterns still have room for growing…
I want to say something about what we all might think of as our normal, sexual patterns.
I am grateful to God for the great gifts He has brought us – in choosing to make us in such a way – that we are designed to be excited by our sexual relationship with our spouses. And I want to assure you – we are still enthusiastically excited after 28 years of marriage! It just keeps getting better. Those of you couples who are younger – I want you to be encouraged by this! Keep seeking the Lord in all things! He is faithful to keep things growing and progressing in all areas of your life and marriage. This includes keeping your sex lives fresh!
Think about it: God could have made us non-sexual. Or He could have made us to reproduce in some other way. Or, He could have made it that we reproduce as we do – but made us to see sex as a chore – like taking out the trash. It has to be done. Thankfully, He didn’t! He knew exactly what He was doing! He did it purposely! Like all good gifts, they require God’s wisdom in the using of them rightly.
But there is no denying it – God made us to enjoy our sexual intimacy with marriage partner. Those of us who have come to know the Lord Jesus Christ – and have the understanding of what He has graciously given us to enjoy – should be constantly praising Him for it. I want you to know that my wife and I regularly (not every time!) thank God for the joys we have in our sex together. We thank Him because we know He is the giver of all good gifts.
All this said, what is the normal, sexual pattern? Do you have one? My wife and I do.
I do love the infrequent treat of experiencing something that we don’t normally experience. But it is not the norm. Like car sex on a trip. I have written about this concerning a recent trip we had. But, that is not our norm. We don’t have car sex every time we go to the grocery store. It isn’t our norm to have sex in the garage. Or on a plane. Or on the kitchen table.
What is normal for my wife and I is this:
It is our regular pattern to have sex every other night (and almost always at least 3 times a week). There are exceptions. We do have back to back nights more infrequently.
Our normal pattern of what we do is: We come to bed naked. We have small, soft towels for cleanup at the ready. The door is locked so the kids can’t walk in. We have music softly playing.
My wife usually begins by laying by my side and we hold each other and have prayer.
When we are done praying, she starts in sucking on my cock – which she has been holding during our prayer. She gently takes my balls into her mouth, then goes up and down my shaft – and then plays with my head. Her tongue is amazing. She has the perfect amount of coarseness to her tongue texture – that creates a sensuous friction on my dick. I love how she plays with my head, and especially flicking the tip of her tongue on my hole at the tip of my head. Our normal pattern is for her to take me to the edge of orgasm and stop without me cumming. There are exceptions to all the steps I am about to list – because we sometimes cum in each of the steps! Yet, our normal pattern to is to cum when we fuck at the end.
We are both heated up by now – and she lays on top of me and I begin to suck her tits. She props her head and shoulders up on pillows as I go to town on her boobs. My wife loves booby play! I grab them, suck them, squeeze the tips of her nipples, flick them over and over again with my tongue (she absolutely loves this!!). I squeeze them hard at times, gentle at other times – and get fairly rough as she gets more and more aroused. My wife loves her boobs to be played with in every way. She knows her hubby is a boob guy! I pull both of them together and suck on both nipples at the same time. She moves from side to side and hits me with them – as I try to latch on to her nipples as they go by. While I suck on them, I grab her ass – as she grinds her wet pussy on me. I will reach down and get my finger wet in her pussy, and stick it in her ass. She loves the sensation of having her boobs sucked, while being fingered in her pussy and asshole at the same time. It is me who has to stop her short of orgasm – as we go on to the next normal treat.
I get out from under her and she lies on her tummy. It is time to play with her butt. I lay face down on her back – with my knees just above her shoulders. I start kissing her butt – as I knead her beautiful butt cheeks with my hands. My wife and I always come to bed CLEAN! I love the smell of her from head to toe. I love the smell of her butt. I kiss her butt cheeks and suck on them. I suck her all over – from just below her belt line down to where her butt meets her upper thigh. I then move to the skin that is on either side of her crack. At the same time, I have a hand underneath – playing with her pulsating pussy – putting pressure on her clit. I then start playing with her butt hole with my tongue. She goes crazy from this. If I don’t want her to come yet, I have to put less pressure on her butt hole – or quit playing with her pussy at the same time. She is at the edge and I get off of her and reposition myself under her.
Now, I’m still talking about our normal pattern here. Next, I eat her pussy! By now, it is so wet – I start by just taking a quick drink of the juices that are already there. I devour her pussy. I suck on it, tongue her everywhere. I put the tip of my tongue on her clit, then pull it out and go side to side. Then, come out and just lick her pussy lips ever so lightly. I love it when she starts to masturbate on my face. This is when I tell that I’m not going to do anything under her – I’ll just passively be there as my face becomes her sex toy. I love this because she so aggressively grinds on my whole face and gets me wet all over – from my forehead to my chin. She goes wild! The sound that her wet pussy makes while so close to my ears is so hot! I love it when she has an orgasm in this position. When she does, the waves that I feel on my face are so intense. She presses down so hard on me as she cums – I love the little pulsations that her whole pussy makes until she is still – and she orgasms for a while! Of course, I drink all of her juices during this whole time. I love her taste! I’ll put it this way, I could never get dehydrated while giving my wife oral sex!! Usually, about two-thirds of the time – she stops just short of orgasm – because she wants to be pounded from behind at the finish!
Our normal finishing position is doggy-style. We both love this for many reasons. By now, we are both so hot and crazed that we are like wild animals – so the doggy seems appropriate. That’s a joke. We like the angles, the fact that I can cup her boobs, the feeling of my hips going up against her butt, and the power of the pounding that we can exert in this position. My wife loves to be pounded – and I love to pound her. She also loves how my cock hits her clit in this position. We might go at this short or long. We both love to hold on as long as we can – loving the feeling of going in and out for a long time. I usually tell my wife I want her to cum first. We often come right at or near the same time – but not always. If I cum first, I might put my hand down on top of my wife’s hand as she is playing with her clit as I’m doing her from behind. I love the feeling of my wife’s pussy gripping my cock as we screw. I often praise her for her tight pussy! It easily takes all my 7-8 inches – but gives a slippery yet tight enough feel to create a friction that is out of this world!
After we both cum, it is our normal pattern to lie in each other’s arms as the juices flow out of her pussy. We tell each other “I love you” – and even talk about how amazed we are yet again by what we just experienced! We are amazed at how God has made us! We love each other. We love our marriage and family. We have a great life in Christ. He is the center of our lives! We love the opportunities we have to serve Him in this world. All of that is more than enough. Yet, this loving sex in marriage that we both just experienced is just another cherry on top of a life so blessed by God. We can’t understand how God makes our sex to be so new – again and again. Yet, He does!
I want to end by saying that normal does NOT equal boring. We love our normal sex patterns. They keep us both hot and satisfied. We don’t need to look to be satisfied by anyone else!
We don’t take God’s gifts for granted. I want to encourage all reading this to do the same. Thank God for your normal patterns of sex with your marriage covenant spouse. The special moments that come infrequently will still be there for us from time to time – and we’ll continue to look forward to them and enjoy them, too.
If you are so inclined, I would love to read responses to this – in having you tell what your normal sexual patterns are. This less creative man (me) would love to read about your normal patterns – so that they might perhaps become part of ours in the future. You can make your reply as long or short as you like. But, I’d like to learn from your normal patterns – because our normal patterns still have room for growing…
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