Nope, this is still not a story about a special night I had with my husband, I am still waiting for that night. This story has a few words of wisdom for the young women that come to MH in search of sexual advice concerning their wedding night. I came to write this story because of a lesson that was learned by a close friend of mine named Monique. Monique gave me permission to use her name. However, I am not going to use her husband’s name because I didn’t get permission; I have to respect privacy and rights. So I will just call him Zoe.
Monique and I have been friends for a long time, since we had started working together two years ago. We both stopped working around the same time, but continued our friendship and it grew and we bonded. We have become very close and share all of our personal secrets with one another. About a year and half ago Monique met a nice man that is about fifteen years older than her. She met him through a friend of hers. Please, allow me to give some background on her husband real quick. Zoe is an average man, no lawyer, no accountant, no doctor, no engineer. He is instead a hardworking diesel mechanic. He dropped out of high school his senior year to help his mother provide for his family when his father was diagnosed with cancer. Zoe would drive his father back and forth to the doctor and to chemo treatments while working two jobs to help pay bills, buy food, and supply for his two brothers and baby sister. When Zoe’s father passed away and his sister graduated from high school he then went back and received his GED. He later became a certified diesel mechanic.
About a year and half ago Monique and Zoe were introduced and they became very close during the following months. They went through the process of getting to know one another and enjoyed each other’s company. He treated her like a queen. Zoe did not believe in sex before marriage and he even accepted the fact that Monique was not a virgin and still showed her the utmost respect. Zoe told her that since she was not married when she had sex he still considered her a fresh virgin waiting for her husband to arrive (I thought that was so sweet). Sometimes Zoe would take her away for the weekends and would always get double beds so no one would be tempted to sin. When she was ready to shower he would leave the room completely to give her respect and when he showered he would take everything he needed with him so she wouldn’t have to see his body and be tempted.
(Interesting Part)
One weekend they were away on a trip and started to make out very heavily. Passion over took them and they started touching, feeling, and exploring below the waist. Luckily, Zoe stopped things before it got out of hand and he took a walk to let them calm down. That’s when Monique called me very upset. I didn’t know what was wrong; she scared the heck out of me. When I could finally get her to calm down she explained to me that when she grasped his dick it was small in flaccid state and when it grew to full erection it was still small. She said it was about six inches fully erect. (Yes, unfortunately my close friend was hooked on penis size as well) I mean this girl was really upset, seriously. I didn’t know what to think at first. I was actually dumbfounded for a minute. When I came to my senses I reminded her that things shouldn’t have gone that far and don’t ever judge a book by it’s cover. But she couldn’t get past his “size”. She stayed hung up about this for some months and was about ready to write him off.
(Wedding & Honeymoon Wisdom)
Well, last June Zoe asked Monique to marry him and of course she said yes. But, she was still worried about his penis size. She was worried that he wouldn’t be able to satisfy her. Once again we had a long talk and I did all I could to convince her not to let the size of his penis get in the way of her happiness and not to break his heart in the process. This conversation went on for weeks (about a full two months). (LOL) I was to the point where I was ready to strangle her. Finally she agreed to let the penis issue go and enjoy what God had given her. She had a beautiful small elegant wedding that December. Zoe wanted to get married in December so that their wedding anniversary will always be his number one Christmas present. Anyway, everything was so beautiful and they wrote the sweetest vows I have ever heard and I am not a crier, but I cried as they read their vows. The only sad thing was that her mother was not there because she had committed suicide when Monique was about eight or nine years old; other than that it was lovely.
Two days later they left for their two week honeymoon in Florida. I must admit, I was worried about my friends and their wedding night. I didn’t talk to her the entire trip so my mind was in overload with suspense. My husband told me to get a hobby and stop checking email every five minutes. It was not every five minutes; maybe every few hours (now you know I am going to make myself look good here right, LOL). Well, during their second week of the honeymoon Monique called me one morning while Zoe was out. I was so shocked by what she said, yet so happy for her.
She told me that their wedding night was so special. He had the most romantic set up she had ever seen. Wine, candles, music, delicious snacks.They didn’t even sleep together that night they just shared a long hot bubble bath and he held her until the water got cold. He dried her off, dressed her in her night gown and put her in the bed because he knew she was stressed from the wedding planning and making sure everything went smoothly. He only wanted her to relax that night and unwind. Then he got in the bed beside her, lead them in a prayer of thanks, then they drifted off into to sleep with him holding her. She woke up the next morning still in his arms. The second night Zoe had the same romantic set up with the snacks and Monique stated that they made beautiful love. She had orgasms she didn’t know she could have. She also found out that she is multi orgasmic; something she never even experienced with other guys even though they were very blessed below. She even found herself day dreaming about his dick during the day.
That was about three months ago; Monique said their sex life is so exciting and keeps getting better and better. It turns out that Zoe introduced her to MH. That’s how he became so romantic; he had been reading up on how husbands romance their wives. They now read stories together all the time, but they are not comfortable posting stories about their sex life just yet. Also, Monique even thanked me for talking some sense into her before she made the biggest mistake of her life by letting him go because of worldly thinking. She is now emotionally fulfilled and satisfied
So my advice to young women is simply not to judge a book by its cover. Just because a book’s cover is plain and brown with no eye catching eye popping decorations does not mean it is boring and a waste of time. Put the worldly thinking away and think with your heart and soul and enjoy what God has blessed you with.
Monique and I have been friends for a long time, since we had started working together two years ago. We both stopped working around the same time, but continued our friendship and it grew and we bonded. We have become very close and share all of our personal secrets with one another. About a year and half ago Monique met a nice man that is about fifteen years older than her. She met him through a friend of hers. Please, allow me to give some background on her husband real quick. Zoe is an average man, no lawyer, no accountant, no doctor, no engineer. He is instead a hardworking diesel mechanic. He dropped out of high school his senior year to help his mother provide for his family when his father was diagnosed with cancer. Zoe would drive his father back and forth to the doctor and to chemo treatments while working two jobs to help pay bills, buy food, and supply for his two brothers and baby sister. When Zoe’s father passed away and his sister graduated from high school he then went back and received his GED. He later became a certified diesel mechanic.
About a year and half ago Monique and Zoe were introduced and they became very close during the following months. They went through the process of getting to know one another and enjoyed each other’s company. He treated her like a queen. Zoe did not believe in sex before marriage and he even accepted the fact that Monique was not a virgin and still showed her the utmost respect. Zoe told her that since she was not married when she had sex he still considered her a fresh virgin waiting for her husband to arrive (I thought that was so sweet). Sometimes Zoe would take her away for the weekends and would always get double beds so no one would be tempted to sin. When she was ready to shower he would leave the room completely to give her respect and when he showered he would take everything he needed with him so she wouldn’t have to see his body and be tempted.
(Interesting Part)
One weekend they were away on a trip and started to make out very heavily. Passion over took them and they started touching, feeling, and exploring below the waist. Luckily, Zoe stopped things before it got out of hand and he took a walk to let them calm down. That’s when Monique called me very upset. I didn’t know what was wrong; she scared the heck out of me. When I could finally get her to calm down she explained to me that when she grasped his dick it was small in flaccid state and when it grew to full erection it was still small. She said it was about six inches fully erect. (Yes, unfortunately my close friend was hooked on penis size as well) I mean this girl was really upset, seriously. I didn’t know what to think at first. I was actually dumbfounded for a minute. When I came to my senses I reminded her that things shouldn’t have gone that far and don’t ever judge a book by it’s cover. But she couldn’t get past his “size”. She stayed hung up about this for some months and was about ready to write him off.
(Wedding & Honeymoon Wisdom)
Well, last June Zoe asked Monique to marry him and of course she said yes. But, she was still worried about his penis size. She was worried that he wouldn’t be able to satisfy her. Once again we had a long talk and I did all I could to convince her not to let the size of his penis get in the way of her happiness and not to break his heart in the process. This conversation went on for weeks (about a full two months). (LOL) I was to the point where I was ready to strangle her. Finally she agreed to let the penis issue go and enjoy what God had given her. She had a beautiful small elegant wedding that December. Zoe wanted to get married in December so that their wedding anniversary will always be his number one Christmas present. Anyway, everything was so beautiful and they wrote the sweetest vows I have ever heard and I am not a crier, but I cried as they read their vows. The only sad thing was that her mother was not there because she had committed suicide when Monique was about eight or nine years old; other than that it was lovely.
Two days later they left for their two week honeymoon in Florida. I must admit, I was worried about my friends and their wedding night. I didn’t talk to her the entire trip so my mind was in overload with suspense. My husband told me to get a hobby and stop checking email every five minutes. It was not every five minutes; maybe every few hours (now you know I am going to make myself look good here right, LOL). Well, during their second week of the honeymoon Monique called me one morning while Zoe was out. I was so shocked by what she said, yet so happy for her.
She told me that their wedding night was so special. He had the most romantic set up she had ever seen. Wine, candles, music, delicious snacks.They didn’t even sleep together that night they just shared a long hot bubble bath and he held her until the water got cold. He dried her off, dressed her in her night gown and put her in the bed because he knew she was stressed from the wedding planning and making sure everything went smoothly. He only wanted her to relax that night and unwind. Then he got in the bed beside her, lead them in a prayer of thanks, then they drifted off into to sleep with him holding her. She woke up the next morning still in his arms. The second night Zoe had the same romantic set up with the snacks and Monique stated that they made beautiful love. She had orgasms she didn’t know she could have. She also found out that she is multi orgasmic; something she never even experienced with other guys even though they were very blessed below. She even found herself day dreaming about his dick during the day.
That was about three months ago; Monique said their sex life is so exciting and keeps getting better and better. It turns out that Zoe introduced her to MH. That’s how he became so romantic; he had been reading up on how husbands romance their wives. They now read stories together all the time, but they are not comfortable posting stories about their sex life just yet. Also, Monique even thanked me for talking some sense into her before she made the biggest mistake of her life by letting him go because of worldly thinking. She is now emotionally fulfilled and satisfied
So my advice to young women is simply not to judge a book by its cover. Just because a book’s cover is plain and brown with no eye catching eye popping decorations does not mean it is boring and a waste of time. Put the worldly thinking away and think with your heart and soul and enjoy what God has blessed you with.
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